Obituary

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations be made to "Outer Harbour Sailing Camp". Please Click the link to donate: https://www.gofundme.com/f/9xdnb-paul-howard.

The family has kindly provided the opportunity to view Paul's service via Livestream. Click the Link below to view service: https://www.youtube.com/live/e7gXXPXwY1s

Paul passed away peacefully on November 30 2024, 80 years old, after a year-long battle with cancer. Paul was a builder, an author, a sailor, an adventurer, a thinker, a leader, an endlessly patient teacher, a fixer of anything, and a beloved husband, father, brother and grandfather.

Paul was born April 17, 1944, on a farm in Dorr, Michigan to John and Eleanor Howard. He worked from a young age, caring for cows, growing and selling Christmas trees, and on the sawmill. Paul attended Western Michigan University 1964-66, and served in the Peace Corps in Nigeria and Togo 1966-1968, building roads, bridges and aquaculture farms. Back at WMU in 1969-1972, he completed a degree in Social Work and organized an 8,000 person rally in Kalamazoo and ten buses to the 1969 Washington, DC, National Moratorium March to end the Vietnam War.

Paul moved to Toronto in 1972. He met his life partner, Fiona McCall on a traditional Hong Kong junk in 1973, in a sailing club for people who did not own a boat. He wrote Make Your Own Furniture and in 1975, they travelled to England and purchased the aging gaff cutter Seagull, sailing from England through France to the Mediterranean. They later purchased Lady Fiona, a 21’ junk rigged fiberglass boat, travelling down the River Danube through Germany, Romania and Bulgaria to Istanbul and Greece.

Fiona became pregnant in Greece and they loaded Lady Fiona and themselves onto a cargo ship from Piraeus to Jacksonville, FL. They sailed north to Toronto, making it back in 1977, with three weeks to spare. Paul cared for baby, Penny, and then Peter, while Fiona worked full-time, wrote Easy-to-make Wooden Furniture for Children (1981), and fit out the bare steel hull of a 29’ foot junk rigged sail boat, Lorcha, for family living.

In 1983, Paul and Fiona left Toronto on Lorcha with Penny (6) and Peter (4). They circumnavigated the world via the Azores, Brazil, Panama, Pitcairn, New Zealand, Papua New Guinea, Australia, and South Africa, returning to Toronto in 1988. They used only a sextant and short-range VHF for navigation and communication for the first two years. Paul and Fiona co-authored All in the Same Boat (1988) and Still in the Same Boat (1990) about this journey, as well as articles in the Toronto Star, Canadian Yachting, Cruising World, TV spots on CFTO, and a TV documentary All in the Same Boat: A Sea of Dreams.

Paul and Fiona completed two more ocean voyages on catamaran Carpe Diem. Between 2001-2005, they sailed to Labrador, around the north end of Iceland to the Faroe Islands, and south through Scotland to Brazil and Argentina, rounding Cape Horn and spending time around Ushuaia, the Beagle Channel, and southern Chile. In 2012-2015, they sailed from Toronto to Alaska and Haida Gwaii via Panama.

When US soldiers and conscientious objectors started seeking refuge in Canada from the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, Paul joined the War Resisters Support Campaign, providing accommodation, finding them work and taking them sailing.

In their 70s, Paul and Fiona traded the ocean-going Carpe Diem for the racier catamaran Rain, and sailed the new boat from Florida to Toronto in 2017. Paul raced Rain at the Toronto Multihull Cruising Club, and usually won. Paul was elected Commodore of the TMCC in 2016, having been an active member since 1999. In 2020, he was elected Commodore of the Outer Harbour Sailing Federation, a group of eight cooperative watersport clubs with almost 2,000 members. Paul helped found Friends of Cherry Beach and Outer Harbour in 2021, to advocate to government on behalf of local sailors, kayakers, and windsurfers. His nautical knowledge was instrumental in fostering better understanding among these groups.

Paul held many jobs, including farm hand, head sawyer at the family sawmill, night janitor, social worker, and writer on topics ranging from sailing to DIY to being a full-time father. He worked as a yacht broker, in a marine supply store, and as production manager for the Cape Horn boat-building company.

Paul was the third of six children, including Mary Ellen Weber, Veronica "Riky" Drenovsky, and Mark Howard, with Peter and Ted Howard already passed away. He leaves behind his beloved wife of 51 years, Fiona McCall; children, Penny McCall Howard (Warren Smith) and Peter Howard (Laura Burke); grandchildren, Ivy, Felix, Simon and Benji; and nieces and nephews, including Rachael, Rebecca, Mike, Tim, Tom, Kelly, Sam, Rosemary, Anna Marie (deceased), Karen, Theresa, Elaine, and Tony; plus 17 more on Fiona's side.

Sincere thanks to the kind and compassionate staff at Princess Margaret and Toronto General Hospitals, Wellcare Pharmacy on College St, and home nurses Tatiana Zakharina and Alesia Vasilyeva.

 

Visitation

Date
December 14, 2024
Location
Cardinal Funeral Home Bathurst Chapel
Time
10:30 AM - 11:00 AM

Service

Date
December 14, 2024
Location
Cardinal Funeral Home Bathurst Chapel
Time
11:00 AM

Cremation

Date
 
Location
Evergreen Crematorium
Time
 
Memo

A private cremation will take place.

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December 14, 2024
Shane and Andrea Paleshi
The Paleshi family are sending everyone our condolences to Paul's family, friends and fellow TMCC club members. We are on Paul's former boat in the Bahamas enjoying many of the same sailing emotions and beautiful sites that Paul loved. RIP Paul, we are happy to have been blessed by spending time with you.
December 09, 2024
Kathryn Wakely-Clare
What an amazing life life Paul lived. He certainly had many adventures and influenced many people. I was Penny and Peter's co-respondence teacher when your family sailed on Lorcha. I re-read "All in the Same Boat" a few years ago -- what a great man and a wonderful family.
December 09, 2024
Ric & Audrey Steeves
Another old friend goes away. Have known Paul since late 70’s when he took pictures of the launch of our back yard Trimaran for Canadian yachting. Who knows, maybe there is another sail boat on the other side of rainbow..