Mr. David James Congram

I worked with David at EY many years ago. He was a bright actuary and a man of integrity. He will be missed.

Dear Margaret and family .., our deepest condolences . David was a great mentor , teacher and kind hearted boss who always thoughtful to all his employees. We are sad to learn the news by coincidence today while his name came up in our conversation. May he rest in peace and Mag and family are given strength.

Dear Marg and family, we were deeply saddened to hear of David's sudden and untimely passing. He has been a true and honest friend for over 50 years and we will all miss him greatly. Although we met, too infrequently, in the UK and occasionally in Canada, we always treasured your friendship, as it was formed in our most significant early years of marriage and kids. How could I have imagined that a few months sleeping on Dave's beloved black chesterfield, after arriving 'homeless' in Toronto, would develop into a lifetime's friendship. You could always be relied upon for a warm welcome at any of our meetings, where David's natural good humour and generosity of spirit would shine. He would recount enthusiastically about a new community project involvement, be it football or hockey coaching, canoe building and even local politics. Despite his obvious professional success, he was always grounded in his love of family, friends, colleagues; interacting directly with and helping people. We have all lost a truly good man, but we will have many warm memories to treasure and sustain us; the better for sharing time with David. We will miss him, and offer our sincere and deepest condolences.

I would like to share all my condolences to David's family. I discovered today he passed away. I will regret him as we shared so many meetings inside the Intenrational Actuarial Association. His professionalism, his enthusiasm, his friednly approach fo people and ideas made very easy and pleasant to discuss with him. All my deepest sympathy with you.

The first time I had the privilege of meeting David was when I worked as a young actuarial student for a client of EY in the Caribbean. From then and all future interactions with him as a friend of the profession in the Caribbean, I knew David to be not just passionate but passionate because he cared. He cared about making people and the profession better and his legacy of success in doing that lives on. I will be always grateful to David for his example. Condolences to all his loved ones. May David rest in Peace.

Dear Family, I was shocked to hear of David's death. I came in contact with him in the IAA Accounting Committee where we both served as co-chair for quit a number of years. He was always very interested in things and I learned a lot of him. At some point I became the chair of the Accounting Committee and David became member of the Executive Committee. Even during that period he was very helpful in my work. Many thanks for that. And after his retirement of the Executive Committee, I became a member of the EC and even at that time he provided me wisdom and help.

I was so sorry to hear of David's passing. My condolences to Marg, her sons, and the rest of their families. I will always remember David as a superb person to work for, his ever positive outlook, and ready smile. I also admire how much he gave back to the actuarial profession. His was a very full life, well lived. I will remember him fondly always.

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the Congram family. David, was a very close mentor of mine, who had taken me under his wings 10 years ago having a huge impact in shaping my actuarial career. Coming out of school, I was young and naive to the open world; through Davids guidance and mentorship he made me aware of what my strengths were, how to position myself in the professional world and type of mindset to have. We used to have frequent touch points which varied from meetings at Starbucks to dining at fancy restaurants during Winterlicious (always triple checking that the restaurants had gluten free options). My very last touch base with him was getting his guidance on an important career switch I was looking to make. I will miss his witty humour, talking about anything and everything (ranging from his interests in picking up Cello, to sports, big data) and most importantly being able to share my professional achievements with him... I'm sure as I continue to pass on his teachings and legend he will be smiling from above with that twinkle in his eye. RIP David

My deepest condolences to the entire Congram family. David was a wonderful man with an inquisitive mind and great sense of humour. I feel very fortunate to have known him. May the memories you all share comfort you always.

Peter & I were shocked to learn of Dave’s death, having just had lunch with Marg & Dave on August 31st before we flew back to Vancouver. Dave was a special friend -kind, thoughtful, humorous & always willing to help anyone in need. We have many happy memories of time spent together at our cottage in Halliburton -Dave was a willing helper with outdoor projects on the waterfront. Our thoughts & prayers are with Margie, Jamie, Chris & their families.

Sympathy Message to the Congrams . Dear Marg ,Jamie ,Chris and family, We were shocked and saddened by Jamie’s phone call on Monday morning to inform us that Dave had died suddenly on Friday. It is hard to believe ,David who had so much energy and “Joie de Vie”. You all must be feeling numb with the shock . We now recall our friendship with Dave and Marg over 53 years ! We were living and working in Toronto in the late sixties ,early seventies . I worked in the CCAS with Marg. We all became friends and shared many special times over that period. It has been a long distance. friendship ,as most of the time we were in Sydney , Australia and Marg and Dave in Canada. However, as Marg and Dave were enthusiastic travellers they did manage to journey to Australia on numerous occasions. We made one journey to Canada in the eighties and had much joy staying with Marg and Dave in Toronto. They were also most hospitable to our twin daughters and friends who visited in the later Nineties . Marg was to the fore ! Dave and Marg ,first visited Sydney in the mid Seventies with very young Jamie and Chris. Dave was most eager to see the Blue Mountains and enjoyed being in the Australian Bush. David sometimes visited when en route to Indonesia . On one occasion I received an email prior to his arrival ,requesting me to purchase some gluten free food for him to take into his hotel room . This was a very important mission as it was not part of my regular shopping ,and Dave’s health depended on it . The local supermarket did not have much on display. However , I eventually found a specialty shop where there was an extensive range of foods to suit Davis’s diet. That was a great relief ! On another visit to Sydney ,David arrived not long after the Latest tourist feature had been established – The Harbour Bridge Climb- David had it on his list and with his usual enthusiasm for a new adventure completed the climb ,wearing the special suit and head gear and Safety ropes and Clamps . You may have a souvenir photo of him at the top of the Climb ? David was always such a loving and caring Husband to Marg and a loving and enthusiastic father and mentor Jamie and Chris . When Jamie visited Sydney a few years ago ,it was as if Dave was here! A similar enthusiasm for visiting a new part of the world ! David was a very bright ,and talented and sincere and caring person . We will miss him and we pray that her will Rest in Peace . We will be watching the Requiem on the Zoom and remembering the times we went with Marg and Dave to Mass at the Newman Chapel. We will pray for you all With love Marg and Brian Mahony

Our heartfelt condolences to Marg, Jamie, Chris and family. Our family has many happy memories of times well spent with the Congrams, be it hiking in the Rockies, taking in the vistas of the Sunshine Coast, or across the other side of Canada in Newfoundland. David had a great appetite for those items that he enjoyed - cheese, cider, and Oyster Bay Chardonnay. David was a tennis partner for many years - he usually beat me! More recently he took up learning to play the cello, and participate in a curling league. He really enjoyed his cello "camps". He loved to recount stories and events over a coffee at either "Timmies" or "Java Joe's". David was proud of his gardening efforts, and was elated when his magnolia produced an abundance of blossoms. He struggled somewhat with his grass!! We remember one day when he told us he had a blockage in the underground section of his downspout drain. Together we excavated to uncover the exit in the ditch. My long arm was able to fish, and eventually we pulled out a mass of roots that when laid out, stretched the width of his driveway. A couple of well-earned ciders went down well. Rest in peace, David.

Our condolences to Marg and family. We will miss seeing Marg and David strolling together down the street. David was quick to offer his support in the neighbourhood and his assistance over the years was much appreciated.

My condolences to David's family for his sudden loss. As I understand it, my late father, Don Duncan, fondly claimed significant responsibility for David's entry into the Canadian actuarial world. His was a household name as I grew up, and I know Dad respected him as a colleague and as a person. On a more personal note, as Dad aged and finally passed, David's visits to see us in Ottawa meant the world to Dad and were a great support to me. Similarly his presence at Dad's graveside ceremony, where my one regret is that I did not ask him to accompany my flautist daughter on his cello. She sends her condolences as well, and a message of how much she enjoyed talking with him that day.

Marg and Family, We were saddened to hear of Dave's sudden passing. Please accept our sincere condolences at this very sad time. Janet Adamson and Dennis Draper

Working in David's practice at EY allowed me to get to know this delightful man. I will forever remember his optimism, his infectious laugh, his energy, and his enthusiasm for all his interests. My sincere condolences to all the Congram family on his passing.

David was a wonderful and patient mentor to me early in my career - I am so glad to have known him. A gentle soul who was always so positive in interactions and his outlook. My sincere condolences to Marg and the family.

To: The Family and Loved ones of David James Congram We were shocked and saddened to hear the tremendously sad and sudden news of the passing of David. On behalf of the organization, please accept our most heartfelt condolences. David was a very devoted and loyal volunteer to the IAA who served with the utmost integrity, dedication, and passion. He contributed tremendously to the IAA’s mission and the actuarial profession globally. The IAA was fortunate to benefit from David’s passionate work in several key leadership roles. David remains recognized and highly respected for his passionate work. It is a very tragic and sudden loss to the international community. Our deepest thoughts and sympathies are with you during this terribly sad time.

Our condolences to Marg, Jamie, Chris and all the other family. David was a friendly gentle neighbour that will be missed. He always had a lovely smile to share. Wishing each of you peace in your time of sorrow. Hugs from our family to yours. Judy, Tim, Christopher, Rodger Evans

I had the privilege of welcoming David to Canada, and to Excelsior Life, when he first arrived from England, and then working with him for several years thereafter. It is with great sadness that I heard of his passing. My sincere condolences to Margie, and to his family. It was an honour to have known him.

I had the privilege of working with David for 10 years at Ernst & Young. He was an intelligent, caring and optimistic leader whose enthusiasm was contagious. I will always have fond memories of him. Sincere condolences to Margie and the family.

I met David when he joined our String Orchestra a few years ago. Without fail, David arrived early before rehearsal, to help set up the stands and chairs for everyone. I always looked forward to seeing David. It was immediately evident that he was a man of integrity, of kindness, elegance and intelligence. I respected him and I will miss him very much.

David was hugely influential to my career and life, as I worked closely with him in support of his leadership vision at Aetna. This opportunity and his mentorship provided the foundation for my business career to this day - more than 30 years later. He set the gold standard for what a "boss" could be. He was a man with the highest standard of ethics, integrity, character. I will always remember how he looked at life and all its challenges with curiosity and a conviction that we can always work to make things better. The lessons in business and leadership are numerous and deeply treasured. I am so happy that I had a coffee with him a year or so ago to catch up and that he continued to live life to the fullest. My husband Jamie and I are so surprised and deeply saddened that he has passed away. We share our deepest sympathies with Margie, Christopher, and Jamie.

On behalf of the Professional Advisory Committee of the Canadian Celiac Association, I would like to express our sincere condolences to the Congram family on David’s passing. As chair of the PAC, I had the fortune of working with David and was struck by his integrity, clear vision, sensitivity and dedication to what he believed in. He had a wonderful sense of humor. He will be missed!

Dear Marg. It is with great sadness that I heard about the sudden loss of your beloved David! Such a shock that such a good man left us all too early! My sincere condolences to you and your family. I feel so blessed to have known him for the few short years we got to play tennis together. He was such a gentleman and so much fun in his quiet humble way! I will greatly miss him! Rest In Peace Dave. 🙏❤️

I am greatly saddened by this news. I have fond memories of working for David and with him, during my time at Aetna, as well our too infrequent contacts thereafter. A gentleman, kind and fun loving, never failing to add joy to life, inquisitive and stimulating. My condolences to Marg and the family.

The Lake Field Music community is very saddened by the passing of David. It was a pleasure to have David and his cello in our musical community from 2014 to 2020. A true gentleman, we will miss him dearly and send our condolences to his family.

I have known David for only a few years, first having met him at Lake Field Music Camp. There, I enjoyed his quiet enthusiasm, unafraid to embark on something that was completely new to him. He joined our string group following that summer, adding his cello to our sound. David was always kind, always interested, always ready with a smile — a gentle man and a gentleman. Our group will miss his presence, and so will I. I can only imagine what a loss he will be to the family, whom he spoke about with love and pride. I am deeply sorry at his loss.

David was a great friend and mentor to me. I first got to know David when he did some work for the company I worked for. We became friends, playing squash, the occasional run and sharing food and wine. We also spent two years together on the Board of the CIA. My wife Bonnie and I had many trips with David and Margaret, cruising in different parts of the world and going to a number of Carribbean resorts. Just a couple of weeks ago David and Margaret spent three nights at our condo in Huntsville and we all had a wonderful time. I had a problem with a chandeleer and David and I spent almost 3 hours fixing it. He was always very helpful and patient. David was one of our favourite people and will be greatly missed.

We are very sorry to hear the sad news of David's passing. We will miss a great friend who has kept in touch with us is since we returned to the UK. We give our deepest condolences to Marg and family. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers. Nanette and Tony

David was the first one to welcome me when I joined the CCA Board at its Ottawa AGM; I was immediately struck by his passion for food safety and improving the lives of those with celiac disease. Over the years, David was always the voice of reason and kindness in meetings; and served as a mentor and advisor to me outside meetings. I last spoke to David a few weeks ago and I think he felt optimistic about CCA's future while anticipating the end of his Board term. David often spoke of his family and was very enthusiastic about your September visit. I am so very sorry for your loss and I hope time will heal. David's work will have a lasting impact and I feel very privileged that our paths crossed.

I knew two David Congrams, firstly as a colleague at Aetna and later as a friend after reconnecting at church. At Aetna he was a respected leader who exemplified the values of humility, curiosity, integrity, and respect for divergent opinions. My wife and I were delighted to get to know David and Margaret on a more personal level over the last several years at the Newman Centre Catholic Mission. We will miss him greatly and offer our sincere condolences to his family.

As an actuarial colleague, David exuded the joy of life. His awareness of life’s complexities and challenges did not dilute that joy, and in fact quietly pointed out to me that light, joy and graciousness are the best tools to bring to the hard things that one encounters, even as I deeply regret his passing.

On behalf of the staff at the Canadian Celiac Association National office, we wish to convey our deepest and heartfelt condolences to the Congram family. David was an extra special human being. David was passionate about access to safe gluten-free food for Canadians like him and his family with celiac disease. He was an incredible volunteer who gave hundreds of hours behind the scenes and approached every task, no matter how small, with great detail, care and appreciation. He was a mentor to staff, a compassionate listener and was our biggest cheerleaders for our small charity. He gave so many hours in and out of the office that we recognized him as our Honorary Staff Member. David, you have left a legacy for people with celiac disease and you will be truly missed. Good work dear friend, may you rest in peace.

David was on the board of the CCA with me for several years so we spent time together when travelling to board meetings. He was open-minded, supportive, and always smiling. He spoke of his family, his music and what sounds like a beautiful life often. Very sad to hear of his passing and sending heart felt condolences to his family from ours in Newfoundland.

David was instrumental in improving the actuarial profession and insurance regulation in the Caribbean and has left us a lasting legacy. His practical wisdom and compassion will be missed. Our condolences to his family.

David was one of the best people I knew. Great mentor to me. Thought the world of him. Good friend too. Thinking of the family

We are deeply saddened by the news of the passing of Mr. David Congram, a member, a volunteer, and a respected leader of the Canadian Institute of Actuaries. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days. Please accept our most heartfelt condolences.

David was a wonderful mentor, brilliant professional colleague, and good personal friend for many years. I will miss him greatly. My heart felt condolences to Margie, Chris, and James.