Obituary
Born in Revelstoke, British Columbia, to the late Kiheiji and Kimi Tabayashi, Kathryn “Kathy” lived a life defined by warmth, resilience, and an openhearted way of moving through the world.
She was the beloved wife of the late Harvey Okawara, devoted mother of Eric (Melissa), and proud grandmother of Emma and Violet. Following the passing of Harvey, Kathy found companionship once more with Peter, sharing laughter, travel, and the quiet comfort of partnership.
Words could never fully encompass what an incredible mother Kathy was. She was loving, honest, selfless and full of spirit. As a grandmother, she took tremendous joy in watching Emma and Violet grow — celebrating every milestone, every small moment, with pride and delight.
The person who shaped Kathy most was her mother, Kimi. Widowed when Kathy was three, she met life’s challenges with quiet strength and unwavering warmth. From her, Kathy learned how to meet the world with grace — to be strong without hardness, and kind without hesitation. That example became her foundation.
Through hard work and determination, Kathy built a meaningful career. She rose from secretary to marketing manager at General Foods and later Kraft, earning respect for both her skill and her character. She retired early at 55, ready to make the most of time — to travel, explore, and share life with the people she loved.
Kathy had a gift for bringing people together. She seldom turned down an invitation, knowing that laughter and connection were among life’s greatest joys. Her retirement was rich with travel, golf, bridge, bowling, entertaining, volunteering and the many celebrations that reflected her generous spirit. She was also a proud member of the Japanese Canadian Cultural Centre, where she honoured her heritage, built lasting friendships, and found a deep sense of belonging.
Though an only child, Kathy often said she never felt alone. Her life was full of love — from her family (the Maruno’s and the Okawara’s), her lifelong friends, and those who became family along the way. In recent years, she also welcomed new friendships that soon became deeply meaningful, adding warmth and laughter to her days. Each person, whether known for decades or only a short while, held a special place in her heart.
Reconnecting with her cousins brought Kathy great happiness. Childhood bonds that time once separated were renewed, bringing laughter, memories, and a reassuring sense that life’s most important connections always find their way back.
Kathy will always be remembered for her generous spirit and her rare gift for making everyone she met feel seen, valued, and deeply loved. Her presence brightened every room, and her warmth continues to echo in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing her.
A celebration of life will be held at the Japanese Canadian Cultural Centre on Saturday, June 6, 2026 from 1 PM to 4 PM. Donations can be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation or the Japanese Canadian Cultural Centre in her honour.
