Obituary

Alex Trinidade Fernandes

May 31, 1942 – September 9, 2023 Passed away peacefully, in Toronto, Ontario, Canada.

Beloved son of Augustinho Piedade Fernandes and Maria Santana Da Silva. Beloved husband of Eufemia (Pam). Beloved father of three children, Olavo Augustine (daughter-in-law Dr. Pamela Mosher), Fr. Elton Leo SJ, and Leona Catarina. Beloved Brother of Camilo (d) and Antoinette (d).

Born in Fatorda, Margao, Goa on 31st May l942, Alex attended St. Stephen’s High School in Mumbai. In l956, he emigrated to Nairobi, Kenya with his parents, brother and sister. He worked for the National Bank as a microfilm technician. On weekends he worked as a part-time professional photographer at weddings and special events. His keen interest in photography led him to photograph wild animals while visiting different game parks in his spare time; some of these unique pictures were published in local wildlife magazines. Alex was also the manager and vocalist for The Amigos Dance Band in Nairobi, in which his wife Eufemia (Pam) also participated as lead female vocalist.

In 1970 Alex emigrated to Toronto with his mother and sister. He worked for the government as a microfilm technician. In Sept 1971 he married Eufemia (Pam). Alex enjoyed Sunday barbecues with his family, and on Christmas Day he particularly enjoyed gathering with extended family and friends.

Within a few months of arriving in Canada, Alex and Eufemia founded a new company, Styles and Stylists, publishing hard-cover books featuring the work of hairstylists from around the globe. This unique publication served as a ‘link of communication’ between hairstylists and their clients. Later they added the manufacturing of hair-care products to their business portfolio. Alex was a talented entrepreneur who loved challenges.  His dreams of ‘concept to completion’ materialized when he built a unique office site in Mississauga, which housed all aspects of the family business, including still photography, graphic arts, typesetting, telemarketing and sales, manufacturing of hair-care products, and even a television studio/theatre to host hair shows with international stylists.

In l997 Alex suffered a severe stroke. This brought many challenges, but he courageously accepted the sudden changes in his active lifestyle, and participated in various group exercise classes, therapy sessions and social events using his motorized wheelchair. For over 20 years, Alex was blessed with the support of his wife, children, extended family and dear friends.  The family hopes that Alex’s enduring legacy will be a reminder to all who knew him to be bold and determined in the pursuit of their dreams. The family extends special appreciation for the care of many healthcare workers and especially the staff at Kipling Acres.

Visitation will occur Wednesday September 13, 2023 from 3pm-7:30pm, at Cardinal Funeral Home, Bathurst Chapel, 366 Bathurst St. Toronto, M5T 2S6. 416-603-1444.  Light refreshments will be served. Mask wearing is not mandatory, however, will be much appreciated. Minimal parking is available at Cardinal Funeral Home, with several public parking options nearby.

Funeral Mass will occur Thursday September 14, 2023 at 9:45am, at St. Mary’s Church, 588 Adelaide St West (at Bathurst St), Toronto, ON M6J 3P8. 416-703-2326. The Mass will be livestreamed on video for those who cannot attend in person at the following link:

https://youtube.com/live/3LDLlN-oqvU

In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the following organizations:

Alex’s Long Term Care Home, City of Toronto —Kipling Acres:  https://secure.toronto.ca/webapps/feps_donateto/ :

Where to Give: Long Term Care Homes

Program: Kipling Acres

 

Daily TV Mass:  dailytvmass.com

 

Heart & Stroke Foundation: https://www.heartandstroke.ca/

 

Eternal rest, grant unto him O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him.

May he rest in peace. Amen.

May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Visitation

Date
September 13, 2023
Location
Cardinal Funeral Homes - Bathurst Chapel
Time
03:00 PM - 07:30 PM
Memo

Mask wearing is not mandatory, however, will be much appreciated. Light refreshments will be served during visitation.

Service

Date
September 14, 2023
Location
St. Mary's Church
Time
09:45 AM

Burial

Date
September 14, 2023
Location
Assumption Cemetery
Time
12:00 PM
Memo

Timing for cemetery is approximate.

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September 30, 2023
Agnelo Texeira
Dearest Pam and family Please accept our sincere condolences from Agnelo, Janet, Dominic, Christopher and Anselm TEXEIRA.
September 14, 2023
Alba D'Silva (nee Lopes)
My sincere condolences to Pam and family on the passing of Alex. May fond memories comfort you all as you mourn. May his soul RIP.
September 14, 2023
Janet and Antonio
Dear Aunty Pam, Our deepest condolences to you and all your family. Uncle Alex had a truly blessed life full of love and he achieved so much during his life. Sending love and affection at this sad time, big hugs from your niece Janet, Andalucia, Spain xxx
September 13, 2023
Steve Alvares
Dearest Pam and family, I’ve known Alex from Nairobi in the 60’s mostly involved in music. He was an accomplished musician with a very prominent voice singing for various bands including mine. May he rest in peace and our sympathies to you and your family. Love Steve Alvares
September 13, 2023
Angela Furtado
My condolences to you Pam and the family, we knew Alex and his family in Nairobi.May his soul rest in peace.
September 12, 2023
Flavia and Anthony de Souza
Please accept our condolences, Pam and family. Keeping you in our prayers at this difficult time.
September 12, 2023
Lisa Dolovich
Dear Olavo and family, On behalf of the Leslie Dan Faculty of Pharmacy, our community sends our heartfelt condolences to you as you experience your loss. May these coming days provide an opportunity to remember and celebrate the life of Alex as you support one another through this difficult time.
September 12, 2023
Lola Maltais
My deepest condolences to the family! I remember Alex for his bravery and courage despite the challenges encountered during his remarkable life. R.I.P Alex.
September 12, 2023
Olivia Ng (Olavo's colleague)
My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. Please accept my deepest condolences on the passing of Alex. May cherished memories bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
September 12, 2023
Regina (Antoinetta sister)
So sorry to hear about Alex .His soul rest in peace. I know Alex when we used to stay at his house in Nairobi with his mum dad ,sister , brother.When he would visit London.Alex and Pam was showing us his new book of hair styles.He was very kind man and loving.His soul rest in peace